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In the past I've described myself as "curvy", but I don't think that adequately represents the fact that I am overweight. I definitely have curves, but I don't really think people expect a huge stomach on a girl when she says she's curvy.

I really don't want to use the word "overweight", as I've found that that term attracts men looking for a "BBW", which I am not.

Assuming I've described my body enough to give you a rough idea of what I look like, what are your recommendations for how I aspiring plus size bbw pinup seeks single male describe myself online esp in situations where my picture is not posted? I guarantee, better to simply not get responses from people who aren't interested than to gloss over the fact and have to see that reaction in person. A study I read showed that the average woman's online dating profile claims her as being lighter than the average woman.

Meanwhile the average man's online dating profile claims him as being taller than the average man. So to some degree I think you should take some courage from the fact that most of the other people on the site are lying. Getting hung about describing your physical form is a red herring.

While men do tend to go for the physical in the first instance, in the environment of online dating that simply means the men are checking out good looking photos.

Accordingly you need to ensure you have a number of flattering photos on seeeks profile. Anyone, of any weight, can achieve this with enough time and effort!

But the most important thing is the wit and originality of your profile. Because I guarantee you that your ideal match will be looking for something that excites them in the text. Something to differentiate you from all the other girls who say that they like to sit in watching romantic comedies.

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Live and learn. Go with honesty, but don't dwell on the specifics. If you need to change that later; do so. Too aspiring plus size bbw pinup seeks single male negativity will give a sense of self image problems. List your positive qualities, and just check the "overweight" button in the demographics data. It's been awhile since I've done the online dating thing, but if I remember correctly it's always not mandatory that you describe your physique at all. I remember that on Yahoo you had to, bloomington tx sluts nude you got to pick from a list pjnup adjectives that used "thick" or "cuddly" as ways to describe people who are overweight.

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Perhaps you could skip over the descriptions of yourself and just make sure you post a few good photos, including a full-body shot or two, so people can dating headline for men for themselves. If you do want absolute truth in advertising, or if you really can't post photos all the time, perhaps you can say something like, "curvy and trying to shed my extra pounds.

But I think skylar was right above Back in my aspiring plus size bbw pinup seeks single male internet dating days, I used to say something along the lines of "Incidentally, I'm a big girl, so I'm looking for a guy who either likes that or considers it a non-issue".

That came at the end of a really weird, absurd profile; basically, if they'd asppiring that far they were clearly already best fuck apps on strange nerdy girls with a penchant for faberge eggs and an unholy love of Sir Michael Caine.

And for aspiring plus size bbw pinup seeks single male it's worth, I garnered no chubby chasers with that disclaimer, only open-minded boys apsiring broad tastes. Try. Keep track of which date you get from which and pay particular attention to the first reaction of the "curvy" ad guys. If you don't like the responses you get, use it as motivation to lose weight to the point that you don't feel the word "curvy" would be lying.

Or at least to the point where you don't describe your own stomach as huge. Pjnup reads personal ads with a grain of salt.

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Especially if the feature is potentially negative. There are plenty of guy who read curvy as meaning overweight. It just depends on whether or not YOU can say it with a straight face.

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And you'll need to be willing to accept the hardship of rejection solely based on your size, which would be a tough pill to swallow. If you're so uncomfortable with this section of your profile that you feel you have to consult AskMe for the wording instead of writing it in your own voice, then you should leave it out entirely.

Switch to a website that allows you to post a photo that shows your body. There's no need to give a verbal description.

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Also, stop assuming that the men you're attracted to aren't attracted to women like you, and that aspiring plus size bbw pinup seeks single male thus need to trick men into thinking they'll be attracted to you. Your goal should be to find a genuine mutual attraction. Just post women want sex Calion picture. Rather than trying to find the right language to describe yourself, and hoping that your readers interpret that language as you do, just post a picture.

When I see a post without a pic and weasel words like curvy of zaftig or voluptuous or worse, volu m ptuousI tend to assume the worst. I agree with Jaltcoh, pictures say it best. I would advise against posting apiring weight in numbers.

I think a lot of people underestimate what people singoe some guy once asked me if I weighted lbs, which I found hysterically funny- not even close. I've noticed that pinup models often put down their weight as something ridiculously low 5'9" and pounds, with that huge escort service nairobi

No way! Keep numbers out of it. Take this with a grain of salt, since I haven't sweks looked at any online dating sites and don't know what the norms are, but how do you feel about putting your size in the description, for example "curvy size 12," or aspiring plus size bbw pinup seeks single male That's assuming that women's clothing sizes mean anything to men.

It doesn't necessarily mean that people are aspirinng, it could also mean that fat women and short men are putting up less ads than their nonfat and nonshort counterparts. So words that convey if it applies fit, fashionable, confident, outdoorsy, cheery, strong, great skin, awesome latina looking for another latina or other words that say that you look good and like yourself in addition to being heavy.

I think one of the concerns that people have with heavy people is the things that they think go along with heavy people, like being out of shape, unconcerned about their appearance. Height-wise I am quite malda sex, but weight wise, I am lbs How?

Exactly like. Believe it or not there are people who are looking aspiring plus size bbw pinup seeks single male someone with your body type. You won't meet them if you don't put it out.

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I have one friend who is frustrated by the "a few extra pounds" radio button as the upper limit. What she wants to know is "how london escort available today I find someone who is actually fat? The stats you're listing simply do not describe someone enormous, but the language you're using indicates a lot of pain and discomfort with your body - and that's less attractive than a round belly.

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Don't bother with online dating if you can't approach it as an amusing exercise with possibly nice outcomes, it's not worth berating yourself and imagining what hypothetical people might like or not like about you. Meet and charm people in person instead.

Good luck. I'd personally go with "a few extra pounds. Definately second with the photo suggestion. Also, really don't awpiring and focus too much on describing yourself physically. I mean, true, it's an issue, but just describe the type of person who you are.

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Maybe I'm some freak case but personally, I'd take a fugly, chubby girl with a nice personality who I can relate to over a hot supermodel with no personality.

The best of luck to you.

There are plenty of words you can use to communicate your shape while being fun and aspiribg about it. Ottawa gfe escorts favorite is zaftigbut there's also shapely, voluptuous and the super-straight forward "plump.

You don't have to be a stick figure to be beautiful. Not that I don't aspire to be one myself, as most of us zaftig ladies seem to. So, in essence, don't be misleading, but don't be too worried about it.

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Good luck! I used match. I think that was honest. I met one guy who thought the username was adorable.

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I married. It's a rare man who has any concept of women's clothing sizes. I personally would feel mislead if you made it sound different from what it is and it would most likely lead to an awkward love in women. I think most people ready "curvy" as a euphemism for "overweight" and that you'd be fine with that one.

Rubenesque, American Heritage Dictionary Plump or fleshy and voluptuous. Used of a woman. Have a nice picture. Also realise that men are not seeka up to do BMI calculations in their head and are quite unlikely to think ,ale, at aspiring plus size bbw pinup seeks single male height she should only weigh ". I empathise hardcore with your situation. The question "How big am I, really?